Those people whose books we may read, workshops we may attend, youtube clips we may watch. Those people who massage us, reiki us, heal us, coach us, counsel us- they are human beings also.

 

What does this mean? This means – they do not live off air- yet! They do not sit on mountain tops in between seeing clients- being tended to by the Angels and having their every need met by the Spirits of the Land. Like others, they have kids to take to school. mortgages and rent to pay, food to buy, cook, eat. They get sick, they fall in and out of Love, they have bad and good days. They are human beings doing the best they can- like you- like us all.

 

Whats the difference? Somehow at some point in their life they choose to walk a path of Service. How did this happen? Who knows every one has their own story. Usually however this will have come about through some form of crisis- a sickness, a life change, something that needed such healing that in seeking the healing they found the medicine that assisted them could assist others. And such was their joy, revelation at that they wished to share it with others. Or they had no choice, quite simply the Spirits called them and said: You- you must assist others and so they do.

 

So let’s look at our expectations? Do we expect these people to heal us, serve us for free? Why should they do that? Who told us thats how it works? Never! Since Ancient times there has been an exchange. Perhaps in a goat or a chicken or a loaf of bread- there WAS an exchange. Perhaps in exchange one helped build a house, tend to the land. There WAS an exchange. Are you willing to go round and make a meal every week for a month in exchange for your healing/service. Are you willing to do their shopping for a week? Are you willing to tend to their sick parents or take their kids to school as an exchange? Yes? Okay great- well I guess ask them and see what they say.

No? Well then in the absence of that- paper shall have to suffice.
Here is something- if we do not like what someone is charging, if we think its too much for us- then FREE WILL dictates we can go elsewhere. Technology means we can do Google searches and voila! there shall be at least tens if not hundreds that shall cater to us. So why keep asking someone to cater to you, why not shop around and find someone who fits what you are looking for? Free will is a wonderful thing. Use it and use it well.

 

Are we looking to be saved? Are we looking for someone to hold all the aspects of ourself we dont like? Here is something to be aware of. What we do not own in us we shall project onto others. The next time you find yourself telling someone what they should do or who they should be- ask yourself why you feel the need to change another. If you dont like it- walk away. What will keep you attached and hooked to that person is the fact they have reflected you and you cannot walk away because when you do you shall have to face the realisation actually it was you, you were upset/angry at or an incident in your past the whole time and not the other.

 

If you do not like the way a healer/teacher is with you. Walk away. Why seek to change them? Their journey is theirs and yours is yours. What is it in you that is seeking to change or correct them. What shall that give you, you do not already have?

 

If you do not like the hours they work or where they are based- find someone else.

 

What does a healer or therapist do? They say- let me hold this space for you while you heal, uncover who you are, come to love all you are. They say perhaps this worked for me maybe it shall assist you. They share practices and teachings with you. They do not hold responsibility for your happiness or life choices. These are in your hands and a good healer shall never disempower you.

 

These people are human beings, until we see that we shall be projecting on a fantasised image waiting for our Messiah to save us. What did Jesus say? The Kingdom of Heaven lies within. Have we forgotten that- going to others not to assist us know our Power but to give us Power and then attacking or blaming them when our lives dont go how we wish.

 

It is death to the healing process and its heart breaking to an authentic healer. Healing however this manifests is a 2 way process- until we own our projections and shadows and pains and fears we shall never heal. We shall go from healer to healer to teacher and say oh well that one was rubbish and that one was too expensive and that one was unprofessional and that one was this and so on. And shall never actually take responsibility.

 

And here is one final thought- if you think someone is being totally useless at what they do, have spent years doing and training in- then please take their place and do the work instead- show them and everyone how you wish it to be done. Until that times comes, until you are doing the work you are seeking to criticise and this applies to all areas of life- then tearing others down is futile and lacking in humility.

 

I would not seek to tell a fireman how to put out a fire or a surgeon how to do open heart surgery- who am I to judge? What do I know? I have never done such work. If I think can do better then it would be best for me to step up and walk the talk- and if I cant- well then- theres a humility in that.

 

If we treat each other with Grace and Humility- in our emails, in our phone chats, in our social networking messages, in face to face communication, if we act from a space of Love the healing we are seeking would no longer be sought- it would be.

 

Most great healers and teachers I have known did not plan to become what they find themselves being. They did not seek out to have such a level of responsibly. Life took them there, the Spirits, the Angels whatever you wish to call it. If one is seeking to be a “Shaman”, a “Healer” its worth asking why? What will that label give me.

 

Shaman are called Shaman by their community, its a term bestowed on them by the Spirits and by their people. Of course we are all healers – no piece of paper gives us that or workshop. However the seeking to be one- the seeking to be one that is better than others- what is that about really? is that about Service? Something to think on……something to sit with and feel into.

 

When we own our Shadows and Projections we find Freedom. When we come at life from a space of Humility we find Freedom. When we admit we are human and are doing the best we can and see others are too we find Freedom and we find Love. Simple really. Or as simple as we allow it to be.

 

Ameyn

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