What are you waiting for to heal? The perfect time? The perfect bank balance? The right weather conditions?

When is the right time? What will it take?

I know for me it took quite a few wake up calls for me to put myself first and really say I am going to focus on healing. That is healing the past, old stories, ancestral stories, coming to know myself, coming to better understand the world and more. Healing is a process. We cannot possibly sandwich it in between a trip to the dentist and that business meeting. Come on!

Its most likely taken years to accumulate the baggage you now wish to let go off. Many people when I first meet them for a consultation have never undertaken any healing work, do not have a daily practice of meditation or yoga or some form of mindfulness, have never even sat with themselves and really looked at the underlying pain and the causes. They may have tried one session of this or that- but there has been no concerted effort to be still and go within. Because of life commitments, lack of money, lack of self worth, lack of something.

And now because things have been left unattended for so long there is now the deep desire and hope that everything can be healed away in a session or two. The Truth is that is not possible. If we have acquired ways of being over a course of decades it shall take more than a month or so to be totally free of these. Although I have seen incredible healing journeys. The truth is the more you put into your healing the more you get back. The more time and energy you invest the more comes back you.

So when shall be the right time? When will the bank balance work out? When?

I have said the same things myself. Oh I cant right now Im too busy…I cant I dont have the money. There is no such thing as I can’t- there is I do not want to…and it is far more truthful to say that. So the next time you find yourself saying I can’t- replace that with I do not want to…….it shall be far more empowering.

I do not want to because I would rather spend my time doing……..I do not want to because I would rather spend my money on…….I do not want to because I am not ready to face myself….okay this one can work with. This is the beginning of Truth with oneself.

There are no perfect conditions to heal. There are no perfect conditions. The time we are in is the best time and when we realise that then we find a sense of empowerment. And in any case why wait another year, another 6 months, why not just do the work now and them get on with the rest of living.

What if this was the only life there was? Would we spend it waiting? Or would we get out there and start doing and living?

We often live our lives as if we have a pause and rewind button. What if there was no pause, no rewind, what if this very moment was your very last? What would you have done with it?

When we pass from this realm what determines the life we incarnate into again or the awareness we find ourself in- whatever you believe about death- what determines the transition is how we pass on. That means the thoughts we have swimming round in our heads,the emotions we have in our bodies and hearts. If there is something left lingering in us- where does it go? It doesn’t just vanish. Energy keeps moving, needs to be transformed, so where does the energy of those thoughts go, where does it all go to? Why not clear it now and give yourself a chance at truly living and truly dying also when the time comes.

So when will you heal?